I know this is the 2nd one today, this is a seperate issue.

BAD DATES:I have been thinking of all my bad dates I had before I met my husband an thought I would give women out there my perspective of what to look for in a bad date. Not all of these have happened to me, but a few have.

Blind date # 1 - My friend tells me this guy saw you one day thinks your cute, would you go out with him? Ok, he is normal right? Very normal.
"Very Normal" should of been the clue, 1. The guy has not been on a date in 15 years, and his mother took him shopping to buy his outfit ( which looked like granimals remember those?).
2. He ate nothing at the restaurant and kept running to the bathroom, what for you may ask
COKE HEAD... 3. Cheap too, kept talking about $ or lack of it, since he was doing Coke I figured he had money I made him take me to the casino spend another $50 then I went home an never saw him again. He actually had the nerve to tell my friend he really liked me when do you think we can go out again? ARE YOU CRAZY!!!

Blind date # 2 - This guy owned a coffee shop I would frequent and he found out where I work and called me to go out, I told him I would meet him for coffee.
" Found out where I work", should of been the clue here. Meet for coffee and as we are talking he informs me that the woman at the coffee house with him is his wife, but they are seperated but still live together and in case it does work out he wants a back up. That ended 90 minutes after it started.

Next date - I walk into Starbucks after working a Sunday morning at the hotel, and these two guys started talking to me, and since I was waiting for my coffee, I told them I had come from the hotel (name), and next day, 1 of them shows up at my work.
'SHOWS UP at my WORK", I was flattered and we made plans to go out to breakfast that following Sat. the date lasted 35 minutes ( my shortest date) reason, he wants a family and a wife to take care of him. He stated this in the first 10 minutes, the only reason it lasted as long as it did the food took too long...

The lesson to day boys and girls is look for signs of STALKER Material... Not a great trait, as in all of these lessons you will notice I met them out, never gave them my home address or home phone number. I figured by this dating time, no reason to bring it into my space until I was ready.